priceless diamond
Monday, June 18, 2012,
i had a conversation with this girl, then in the end she said to me,
You know, maybe... the reason im scared of breaking up, is because im afraid that i might not find a person as good as him. infact, what if i cant even find anybody else?
nway, i totally understand the girl's feeling. yeah, been in that position too. that's kindda one of the reason why i dwell on breaking up the last time. but Alhamdulillah, Allah opened my eyes to a much beautiful things, that im no longer afraid of not being in a relationship. i used to b afraid of being alone, mcm loner, mcm x laku. mcm urghhh. but after much reading, observing and thinking, i now realised, kalau mmg jodoh kite dgn org tu, we will end up with that person. i have seen people who couple like FOREVER, do all silly stuffs (adding number of sins) yet, ended up with a totally different person. and i have seen people yg x pernah couple, infact x knal pon, tp dgn izin Allah, jumpa dgn scare terhormat n ended up the respected way. who are we to debate dgn kuasa Allah? infact, who are we to debate with Allah's order? it's crystal clear Allah has wrote in the Quran ; JANGAN MENGHAMPIRI ZINA. and there are orders on menundukkn pandangan too. in another word, bukan shj couple, we are not even suppoz 2 bergaul tanpa sbb. it's called menjaga ikhtilat. (which im trying my best now) bergaul tanpa sbb termasukla talking nonsense on the phone, texting unnecessary things, bersukan with the opposite sex, or even chatting unimportant stuffs.
my dear sisters, Islam ni sgt cantek. we were asked to cover our aurat, so that we are special :) supaya kite terjaga. supaya org yg tgk tahu, we are hard to get. nak cakap dgn kite pon susah. setiap inci tubuh kite,hati kite, hanya boleh mnjadi milik ssorg dgn bayaran mahar. but then, y r we lowering our standard? knape kite bg org chance manje2 dgn kite for free? kite....bukan kereta yg boleh test-drive. nnti esok x suke, cari kereta laen. :(
my dear sisters, u r a DIAMOND. with or without a presence of a guy, u r still SO BEAUTIFUL and priceless. u dont need a guy to make u feel worth-it. read more on Rabiatul Adawiyah. her story will makes u realise, how weak we are compared to her. dont b scared if no guy comes and approaches you.... Maryam Ali Imran ended up single till the end of her life, but her name is written in Jannah.
if a guy is a really good guy, he will have faith on Allah. having faith means, believing and standing in Allah's rules. dye akan tlg kite mncari Allah, bkn mnjaohi Allah. kalau sebelum kahwen, x latih diri nak jaga hati, jaga pandangan, janganla dah kawen expect him utk ttbe jaga hati. yes, people can change, but what if they dont? what if lepas kawen he said, "you know who i am before marriage but u still accept me. why do u want me 2 change now?" so, how exactly ur definition of a good guy? where do u put his agama in this criteria?
before i halt to a stop, let me just remind you to janji Allah. in the Quran it's stated, SIAPA YG BERMUJAHADAH PADA JALAN KAMI, AKAN KAMI BERIKAN JALAN. and in another ayat, SESUNGGUHNYA ALLAH BERSAMA2 ORG YG SABAR. rite in the moment where u feel weak, be patience, Allah is there :)
sisters, may Allah gives us all the strength to do what's right. life is too short to think that we have all the time in the world. and i'm in love with this one sentence i've once read,
MCM MANA KITA NK PERKAHWINAN YG BARAKAH KALAU IA DIMULAKN DGN PERHUBUNGAN YG HARAM. :)
and dont worrie, from my own experience, the moment u take good care of ur heart, lg bnyk org yg akan try to own it. no joke :)
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