curiosity dont always kills
Tuesday, November 8, 2011,
i have been lying on my bed since 10.30pm. and now, it's 3.40am. yet, im still wide awake. this is what happen when u spent ur evening napping. so lets just blog to kill the time.
a friend once said that i always bantah what he said. so i took some time to think. u know, there are reasons why i was chosen as a debater in my school. one of it is because, i debate. but then, debating and arguing are two diff things. let me ask u a simple question, if someone tells u some facts, n u think they're wrong, will u just keep quite or will u clarify them? i always enjoy a discussion. i believe, dgn berbincang, we can exchange ideas. n by debating, we can build confidence in ourselves. kite kna yakin atas fakta yg mnjadi hujah. kan? define yakin. well, before u said something, pastikn fakta tu betul, sahih. it's never a good thing to be spreading the wrong thing. kan?
what im trying to say right here is, before u start a discussion, always have an open mind. be ready to listen to diff ideas and opinions. n i believe, the most important thing is, ur niat. if u berbincang dgn niat nk share idea, atas dasar ukhuwah, insyaAllah everyone will benefits. but if ur niat is to just tunjuk pandai, and u just want ur ideas to be accepted, then better forget the whole thing. sebab... kalu fikir nk menang, nk u je betol, susahla, sbb ur facts might not b rite. rite??
akhir kata, im sorrie if berbincang with me seems so impossible. im sorie if i dont easily takes ur words bulat2. i x mintak bnyk, just bukti to show that u r not just pulling my legs. that's all. nway, i always welcome a good discussion, it helps to trigger my brain cells. ^^
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